Divorce / Infidelity
Is your spouse, acting suspicious? Do you really know what's happening? We recognize and understand the stress and emotional strain that comes with issues like the fidelity of a spouse or significant other. You may be at a point in your life when you need some answers. You may be needing to make some important decisions. You need proof not hearsay. You need answers not guesswork. We often hear it is the “not really knowing for sure” that can tear you down. The results we provide may help you a great deal legally and emotionally. Surveillance is the most effective way to determine inconsistencies or consistencies in a subject's behavior. A thorough report, videotaped documentation and still photographic evidence are important to your case. All evidence is collected and provided in a professional manner. Call us at today at (985) 876-9062 for a free consultation.
Statistics tell us that 50% of men who think their partner is cheating are correct and 85% of women who notice signs of infidelity are right. Infidelity is steadily increasing. Here are some of the common signs of infidelity:
- The most common situation in which infidelity takes place is if an opportunity presents itself – business trips with colleagues, car pools, meetings at a gym.
- More time spent away from home, frequent absences - shopping, conferences, seminars, business trips, fishing, working late, trips to places where the spouse will be not able to be contacted
- Lack of interest in sex and avoiding sex using ridiculous reasons
- Distraction, daydreaming, disorganization
- Evenings out “with the girls” or “with poker buddies.” The spouse is not included.
- Secrecy – the spouse turns off the computer monitor when someone enters the room or goes outdoors or to another room to talk on the phone.
- Checks up on the spouse to make sure he/she won’t be checking on the cheater
- High mileage on the car or not enough mileage on the car when he/she was supposed to be going a long distance
- Refuses rides to or pickups from the airport
- Clothes smell of a perfume or after shave of the opposite sex
- Spouse brings home clean laundry
- Spouse returns from work in different clothes
- Unexplained credit card charges or payments on the bank statement, unexplained receipts
- Credit card charges made in town when he/she was supposedly out of town
- Secret withdrawals of money or secret credit cards
- Less money deposited from a paycheck into a joint bank account
- Has a secret cell phone or unknown numbers stored
- Has a secret e-mail address and account
- Deletion of e-mail messages, phone messages, etc.
- Has a “special friend” of the opposite sex
- The innocent spouse receives special gifts or flowers for no reason.
- Has deposit slips for someone else’s bank account
- Carries someone else’s house keys or garage door opener
- Makes drastic and wide-ranging efforts to lose weight, buy sexy underwear, color hair, and improve wardrobe, grooming and hygiene
- Makes a change in attitude, usually perceived as not caring as much about the spouse or not making an effort within the relationship
- Refuses to talk about extramarital affairs or people he/she once showed interest in
- Suddenly has many new friends and hangouts
- Not being where he/she said he/she would be
- Cryptic remarks made by friends (They are hints.)
- Removal of the kids’ toys and car seats from the car
- Items in the car do not belong to anyone in the family
- Has a change in body odor
- Strange personal items are found in the home when the spouse has been away – sometimes left on purpose by the cheater’s lover for the spouse to find
- Has cyber sex or meets people in person from chat rooms
- Avoids work colleagues when accompanied by the spouse
DI has earned a successful reputation through many years of experience, (26 years), with integrity and investigative excellence. DI's mission is to surpass all others in investigative excellence by providing all of our clients with the highest quality investigative services.
